Do you live in North Carolina, love yourself, and love what Simply-Boudoir stands for?  Would you tell women every chance you get about Simply-Boudoir and even show them your favorite images from your session?  Do you want a full free session (or 2) with hair and makeup included?  Would you sign a contract and allow me to use your the images from your session to promote Simply-Boudoir to women all over?

If you answered “YES” to these questions then I want to hear from you!

I am looking for a few reps to help spread the word about Simply-Boudoir and what we stand for.  I want you to tell women how empowering and classy boudoir is with us and I want you to love your images you show them off to everyone!  What do you get in return?  Well, you’ll get 2 free sessions a year (complete with hair, makeup, and wardrobe styling) and for every client that books from your referral you will receive $50 towards products.  There is no limit on how much you can earn in products or how many ladies you can bring us.  You must sign a release allowing the use of your images on this website, Facebook, and print products to showcase the Simply-Boudoir experience.

If you are interested, send an email to stacey@simply-boudoir.com (or use the contact form above) with the following information as well as a photo.  All applications must be to me by Monday, May 20th!

Name:
Age:
Location:
Job:
Why you want to be a rep:
What you would tell other women about Simply-Boudoir:

These women come in and let their guard down.  They know their bodies have changed and they are ready to accept that and celebrate it.  They work over 40 hours a week caring for everyone else and taking care of everyone elses needs and now they are allowing themselves to be taken care of.  I think this is the hardest part for most – overcoming the guilt of taking time for themselves.  It shouldn’t be that way though, because mothers deserve this time so much.  They crave it and need it.  I’ve had women who just wanted to sit and chat in the studio after their session because they enjoyed just being away from it all and they felt amazing and not judged in their own skin.

Mother’s, this is to you.  A job I have yet to decide if I want to devote myself to but one that I am more than happy to help you celebrate.  You are all so amazing and beautiful and I thank you for allowing me to show that to you.  For now, raising fur babies and helping you celebrate is my calling.

Here are just a handful of the mothers who have come to me since last Mother’s Day – the ones who have given me permission to share.  The truth is that over half of my clients are mothers and I wouldn’t have it any other way.  Rock on, sexy mama!

All images are shared with permission from my client.  Seriously – isn’t her hair to die for?!

When my mom would walk out from getting dressed on Sunday mornings – hair curled and sprayed, makeup on, her scrambling to put her shoes and earrings on and get everyone in the car so we could leave for church on time, daddy would compliment her.  Sometimes with a whistle added in but always so she could hear him.  Most times, mom would blow him off with a grin.  “Yeah, right” she’d say, as she’d turn to grab her purse, change the subject and hurry us into the car.  She would return from getting a perm and daddy would compliment her and if she felt good about it that day she’d smile and say “You like it?  Me too, now if I could only lose 20 lbs”.

I never really thought much of it until I got older and realized that while we were all told we were beautiful and pretty, my mother never told us how pretty SHE was.  We never heard her tell us that she liked her hair, her eyes, how she looked in a certain dress.  Sure, she liked ours, but she was never really happy with hers.  While daddy always made me feel like a princess, in the back of my mind it was only a matter of time.  In time, those looks would fade and when I became older I could no longer be happy with myself.  I could no longer be pretty, be fit, be happy.  Or at least that’s how she made me feel.

Mothers, this is your call to action.  Your daughters are listening and paying attention.  Telling them that they are beautiful or you think they are brilliant, love the way they dance, love their freckles, is simply not enough.  They…WE, need to hear that you think YOU are beautiful, too.  We need to know that beauty does not have an expiration date.  That beauty does not fade when you get married, become a mother or pass the age of 40.  That although our bodies change and our lives change, beauty still exists.  There are ample opportunities and your daughters are listening.  When you’re putting on your lipstick or getting dressed, take the time to acknowledge that you are beautiful.  Tell them how pretty you feel from day to day and how pretty they make you feel.  Take the time to compliment your daughter and yourself.

Try it.  You never know – you may start believing those things too, if you don’t just yet.  Compliments and self love can go a long way and you deserve to feel loved and most importantly, how can someone else love you if you don’t love yourself?

A boudoir or beauty session is about celebrating who you are just how you are.  Stop putting it off and making excuses.  Your daughters do not love you more when you lose those 10 pounds or get that dental surgery.  They want to see you happy and want YOU to see yourself how they do.  It’s time to celebrate you – so let us help you!